Hi Doug,
I quit 10 days after you did, on June 27th, and my husband quit the day after me. I found this site the first morning of my quit and Joel's videos and the readings helped me so much. I spent hours each of the first 3 days on this site, and yes, they got me through the worst of it. I visit almost daily to stay pumped up about this most important life change.
I just wanted to say congratulations to you and your wife. All the best and NTAP!
pat