Perhaps this will get deleted, since it probably falls under the category of debating the policies of this board. Even so, I felt it was important to make a point. No, CarolynH, it is not semantics at all. In fact, it is a critical definition of membership in this group. You cannot relapse and still be a member (without lying to yourself and everyone else). You are no longer a member at the moment of relapse. It is not semantics when you lose your quit.
qwerty
82 days (2m, 3w, 0d, 12h)
NTAP
NTAN (Never Take Any Nicotine)